So today my friend sent me the perfect email for my mood so here it is.
In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question "What kind of man are you looking for?" She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye and asking, "Do you really want to know?" Reluctantly, he said, "Yes." She began to expound... "As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to ask a man what he can do for me that I can't do for myself. I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man...or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask, "What can you bring to the table?" The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought and stated, "I am not referring to money, I need something more. I need a man who is striving for perfection in every aspect of life. "He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her to explain. She said, "I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man. I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for perfection financially because I don't need a financial burden. I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded. I am looking for someone who I can respect In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive...he just has to be worthy. God made woman to be a helpmate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself. When she finished her spiel, she looked at him. He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said, "You are asking a lot.
She replied, "I'm worth a lot."
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I find that a woman who is intellegent enough to inentify and then seek to fulfill her needs is a thoughtful and very insightful human being. A woman prepared for life in every nessesary way is a strong self sufficient and a well prepared canidate for a life mate and has built self worth. That type of woman can choose the man that posses all of her (needs), rather that the social need of good looks, the sexual need of.... well lets just say fulfillment, the emotional need of partnership, financial needs, and so on. Why, (as a man speaking), are so few of the standards sought out by the men who empregnates a woman meerely for looks or his lust? The ones who bounds them self to a woman based on just a meager portion of those life preperations? He is not valuable enough to be descriminative? Or is he just thinking with his.... well lets say sex drive or plain ignorant. Why are smart people are so hard to match? Damn!
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